Parents who have children may find it challenging whenever traveling for work or for a business trip. Regardless of whether it is for a weekend, for a month or longer than that, leaving your children alone is very difficult. The feeling of the kid being left by the parent is mutual. Most of the times you can do nothing about it, but with the following tips, you can make those trips less stressful for your family. Understand the ideal time to inform your child about your leaving. The age of the child and his temperament should guide you. Some kids may not understand the date and time interval you communicate. Since most young children tend to be extremely anxious about their parents leaving, it is advisable to reduce the span of time you make them aware of your leaving so that the length of time to worry will be greatly reduced. Older kids are much more understanding, so you can break the news to them anytime. In some cases, you may be required to leave very urgently in such a way that you can’t give your child much notice.
It is also advisable to tell your child what you will be doing and how he or she can reach you. The child should most importantly know when you will be back. Then you can teach him to cross out one day every day that passes and that the last day marked on the calendar is when you will be coming back. By use of location maps and photos, you can disclose to the child where you will be. For the older kids, you can just tell them the name of the place you will be. It is crucial to assure your child that you will keep in touch and know their status while you are away. It is good to find out where the child would like to stay when you are away and make sure you agree with her in good terms. The normal routine of the child should be adhered to and not changed as it can disrupt the kid’s life. Remind the babysitter to be consistent and reasonable with every action.
By so doing, you will reduce the separation anxiety. Once the child watches the video tape, it can soothe her to have a good sleep. Some of the harsh goodbyes that can do more harm than good include sneaking away, acting anxiously, prolonging the departure or even showing how guilt you are. It is good to find out how your child is doing to ease your nerve as well as hers. However, you should not allow persistent calling or nagging as it can make it hard for you to attend to the responsibilities that took you away there. Make sure you believe the person you entrusted the care of the child to. Creating time for you and your kid is crucial as you make her feel good and loved.